Any date coming for the weekend yet? Note that this blog not only covers dating between couples but it is one of the theme matters to me most in order to get my goal in create a culture of datings here. Something that my friend Caitlyn told me once was: Anita, you can be my date!, Any one can have dates with different people including family. Now.. that is clearer I can continue. The question refers to :"if you are planning something for these days or for the weekend and how does it go? For now, I have no dates yet but I'm going out with girlfriends this weekend and have planned to go dancing, hopefully we can find interesting people :)
As a good friend of mine said: "When boys take the initiative of planning the date, it feels very good"! They definitely have good ideas and are excited about it which becomes a good beginning for the development of the event itself. I think the details make you feel more involved on a date, if there are not... you stay a little empty then. There has been some times that I have a date and my conclusion was: The date was ok : (
I do not know if it's because in some dates the guy has been tense, little confident, insecure, worried, concerned about whether or not to give, or if he has been used, or if there's gonna be a second date, or he goes with a protective shield, etc. As a feminist definitely I can tell what's happening? at the fisrt time. That is already a bad starting point against to the date. In the other hand, there are other dates in which there is natural interest, trust, taste, emotion and motivation ... WOW! this is the date! It is important to me to be relaxed, laughing, sense of humor around is great!. I think something that also disappoints on a date is that one of the two put time limit on the event, such as saying "I have something to do after that"....., or" I'm a busy person, I do this and that, I'm always here and there. " That is no problem that you have many things to do .. we all have things to do .. but no mentioning that is better than to rub this on anyone's face that does not even you know, that bothers a lot, attentive against the desire to go out. If someone really wants to go out...must not have agendas into a date, if there are many excuses for having a date it means the boy is not ready yet.
Well, I do hope you are doing good in planning your dates so far, take out all the ideas you have and enjoy it so much because having someone you like or motivates you to see is one of the most beautiful feeling which may have .
Have a great one!
Gracias,
AnaCe
Nope, no plans for the coming weekend. I'm nursing a cold. :( If I had commented before last weekend, I would have said no plans too. I decided to stay inside for the weekend, nursing my PMS. Then, of course, I had the lovely addition of a head cold to deal with too. LOL.
ResponderEliminarI did have a "date" with a friend two weekends ago to her friend's wedding. This would be my second "wedding" date with a female friend. I had a fair amount of fun both times. Although, neither one liked to dance. I really dislike going on the dancefloor alone, but at least I did get invited to dance by one guy even though it didn't last long (another woman butted in). LOL... I have no luck with these things.
Anyway, I agree with the time limit comment. I did that to someone before, and it didn't feel good. Yet it was an awkward time and I just wanted to leave. :( The date was so strange that I'm still not sure if it was even a date. It was with a longtime male friend... everything was so ambiguous, it was just weird. Are we going out as friends or not? It wasn't totally clear. Then, when our outing went fairly badly, I just didn't feel like trying to salvage it.