sábado, 5 de febrero de 2011

Male chauvinist or not?

Is your society male chauvinist or sexist?
Why do you think it is or is not a male chauvinist society?Here it is the dilemma jejeje....In my personal opinion, I think Peru has a male-dominated society, which form children with duties that are not equal for both sexes and rights that are not equal for both sexes as well. Despite the century in which we live, education of the children always, or somehow, will go in favor of satisfying men; according to the perspective of what he feels or needs, if he is comfortable, if he is well fed, if the delights that he wants must to be provided; and much more...And I wonder: why? What is happening to us as a society? Definitely, I am not generalizing, but come on, it is obvious that we live in a society where the male chauvinist (male or female), it is the most. What we need to do or how to "be" in order to progress and not left us be behind? It seems that we still feel we have to serve somebody specific, everyday of our lives and head down without defending others, whom they really need to be served. Our concern is guided to achieve the task that men have entrusted to us, or do things well for them, not to mention, not comment more, not claim, not see, not say.... otherwise?... they would leave you! What a fear! You will be left by a man!.No matter if he hits, if he lies, if he takes advantage of others, if he has a double life, if he does not work, if he is not prepared, if he is not nice, if he is not a fighter of live, if he is not a good person.... the fear because a man leaves us is unthinkable.While it is true, we are in this world to share our life with someone, it does not mean that if you are not happy withthis someone” …you have to stand it a situation that not makes you happy.You think that the problem of themale chauvinistis the same women?Wherever, when you go to a family reunion, are men those who serve the lunch? or in your house….are your brothers the ones who ever serve you? or is your Mom saying: serve you to your brother and your dad. Who has told moms..that the things have to be like that?To give an example, my male cousin was given a car but to his sister not...just because he is the man and she is the woman. Should she not be more protected rather to be exposing every day taking the bus or taxis? I know that the men in our country are also at risk...but it is a male-dominated society, an offender will always choose a woman to do harm.Many of the sexist moms and dads educate daughters to serve but not how to defend themselves, and when they become adolescents suffer mistreatment, abuse and are condescending to their partners as Mom taught.... the daughters learned the lesson literally. On the other hand, if the male chauvinist dad already broke away from Mom because he cheated on mom, then the daughter will not have to run to and therefore accept that kind of life.
I know with conviction that we all have the right of not accepting bad people in our valuable life. I think the division between ourselves, women against women, it is a constant auto goal for us and a goal for men who know that some of us will face to stay with them. It is not necessary to do that; we understand that you may not lose time in someone who isn't worth having many people who do want to make us happy. Finally, I would like to share something that a friend that is enjoying a good man in her life sent me:First love you for yourself, so you can love someone;Don't think you've born incomplete and therefore have to find your other half.
You have everything and who choose to share your life so you will see.
(I apologize for my grammar )

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